Wednesday, June 28, 2006
today was a good day. =D so good it doesnt feel like its exam period
i managed to get in touch with almost EVERYONE in my different parts of my life. i m so happy.xDDD
morning time.
dance part - ronson
class part - breeko outing
old sec4 class part - jessica
first 3 mths part - brinden
afternoon time.
went to "eat" lunch with my 212 kia-s at kfc.. "eat" bcos in the end i didnt eat as they all eat almost finish liao =S.. lol.. but it was good. i was sitting bside murphy. LOL. he is always crappy la. lol..
someone grew by o.5cm! -claps- LOL
then went to paosie's house until 6.30pm. pearleen looks lyk a monster. roar!
evening time.
bought jason di's birthday cake. =D
HAPPY BDAE JASON DI!although jason di is one of the di-s which i take care most little of.. but i stil love my di-s loads la =D.. lol.. and last year i said to celebrate his bdae with PEARL.. cos his bdae is 28 june. 28 is same as ME while june is same as PEARL.. but that pearl though that she looked ugly today so she refused to go back to nanhua. lol
so i went back to wait. they only left national stadium at 7.30pm. so while i was waiting, i found the o-level timetable so i recorded down the dates of the people who i know will be takin the exam on which date. i m such a nice senior man =D LOL.. how i wish i can meet someone lyk ME!.. haahhahahaha.. sorry abt that =X
so when they arrived, it was the usual screaming of yanling and jiemin. LOL. these 2 arrr.. i love their noise so much!. LOL.. then came cheryl, yihua, april, jeraldine and all the others.. and they were lyk screaming for jason to come. lol. of cos my di was touched and he kinda messed up my alrd messed up hair. LOL.. so we sang songs, took pics and yea.. it was a short and great time =D
i love going to see my one-ten which is two-ten this year cos they always make me feel damn loved. LOL. they were all lyk shouting i missed you ben! we miss you alot leh! why so long nv come back see us?.. hahahaa.. so touched! i m gg to cry. LOLL
i hope they will stay as such innocent and cheerful kids forever =D
then i went with jiemin to meet jo, spencer and pearl for dinner. i think they were quite stunned to see jiemin, but being nice seniors, jiemin had dinner with us. =D haha.. i enjoy every second of my time with them la.. my secondary sch classmates
dong wei once asked me:
"secondary school frens will be your bestest frens in ur life, are you sure of yours?"
i can tell him certainly that i made the right friends yea! =D and of cos the right JUNIORS! =D
so jiemin was laffin along with us and she was quite stunned to see our weird body language and of cos hear our werid language. lol. spencer says he wants to publish a book on our language. LOL. cos he tried to use the ma, wo wadeva wadeva in the english version on his classmates today.. but apparently no one understood?.. LOL
then eating halfway.. GODBROs kian eik and kian yong walked past. was damn happy to see them. so bounced out to talk to them for awhile then kianyong told me something.. which wasnt VERY GOOD. oh wells.
then i paid for jiemin's meal. oh man. i m such a great senior =D.. LOL.. then walked her home.. had a good talk with her, although short but it managed to confirm some thoughts that i had.. haha.. haven talked to her in a long time ever since the incident happened... hmm.. well.. i still think she is my cutest sec2 gal. little gal! lol.. oh oh! and i didnt tell her that she looked gd in short skirt! and i m not tiko okies =)
on the way home.. i dunno why.. but even though i am in a finacial crisis, i m still so bloody generous, bought MACs back for my sisters lor. LOL.. and my mum was angry cos she didnt get treated.. haha. HENG for me ar!
well.. i am very gald to be able to meet so many people in ONE day! =D
i pratically met everyone in my secondary school and almost all parts of my current school!.. hahahaha =D i m a happy boy today
and when i came home, i had the shock of my life. my mum bought new bedsheet covers.
bestf:: remember that i will always always be there for you! =D and no matter how stubborn you are. which i know you are super stubborn, i wun give up on you yea! =D cos i believe my patience is greater than ur stubbornness! hahaha.. i wun force you but ya.. just rmb that i m there for you yea! =D
jo: i hope ure feeling better cos you shld feel the LOVE from us!.. WE LOVE YOU! xD
7bsu: i LOVE you ppl loads! thanks for always being around! =D
2-ten: you are the most adorable people ard!! although you are the grp of ppl that i interact least among all.. but you ppl are really good! haha.. love you ppl loads! =D and thanks for all the words yea! -greatly appreciated- =D
1sc8: yeahhh! i love my class! cos my class loves me! =D
ac dancers: i love everyone in dance! =DDDD i will miss the seniors loads when dance starts after exams =( must visit us yea!
darlings of 2-ten xDD
yanling, jason di and jeraldine
abit blur =S
<3 jason di! =D
my bedroom suddenly turned so colourful =X
i shall study the whole day tmr!.. oh.. and i found a very accurate online personality test! haha.. its accurate for me, paosie and spens!.. and me and pao are lyk natural partners?.. hmmm.. LOLLL xD
http://bloginality.love-productions.com/index2.php ---> take the test! =D
ME!
Portrait of an ISFP - Introverted Sensing Feeling Perceiving
(Introverted Feeling with Extraverted Sensing)
As an ISFP, your primary mode of living is focused internally, where you deal with things according to how you feel about them, or how they fit into your value system. Your secondary mode is external, where you take things in via your five sense in a literal, concrete fashion.
ISFPs live in the world of sensation possibilities. They are keenly in tune with the way things look, taste, sound, feel and smell. They have a strong aesthetic appreciation for art, and are likely to be artists in some form, because they are unusually gifted at creating and composing things which will strongly affect the senses. They have a strong set of values, which they strive to consistently meet in their lives. They need to feel as if they're living their lives in accordance with what they feel is right, and will rebel against anything which conflicts with that goal. They're likely to choose jobs and careers which allow them the freedom of working towards the realization of their value-oriented personal goals.
ISFPs tend to be quiet and reserved, and difficult to get to know well. They hold back their ideas and opinions except from those who they are closest to. They are likely to be kind, gentle and sensitive in their dealings with others. They are interested in contributing to people's sense of well-being and happiness, and will put a great deal of effort and energy into tasks which they believe in.
ISFPs have a strong affinity for aesthetics and beauty. They're likely to be animal lovers, and to have a true appreciation for the beauties of nature. They're original and independent, and need to have personal space. They value people who take the time to understand the ISFP, and who support the ISFP in pursuing their goals in their own, unique way. People who don't know them well may see their unique way of life as a sign of carefree light-heartedness, but the ISFP actually takes life very seriously, constantly gathering specific information and shifting it through their value systems, in search for clarification and underlying meaning.
ISFPs are action-oriented individuals. They are "doers", and are usually uncomfortable with theorizing concepts and ideas, unless they see a practical application. They learn best in a "hands-on" environment, and consequently may become easily bored with the traditional teaching methods, which emphasize abstract thinking. They do not like impersonal analysis, and are uncomfortable with the idea of making decisions based strictly on logic. Their strong value systems demand that decisions are evaluated against their subjective beliefs, rather than against some objective rules or laws.
ISFPs are extremely perceptive and aware of others. They constantly gather specific information about people, and seek to discover what it means. They are usually penetratingly accurate in their perceptions of others.
ISFPs are warm and sympathetic. They genuinely care about people, and are strongly service-oriented in their desire to please. They have an unusually deep well of caring for those who are close to them, and are likely to show their love through actions, rather than words.
ISFPs have no desire to lead or control others, just as they have no desire to be led or controlled by others. They need space and time alone to evaluate the circumstances of their life against their value system, and are likely to respect other people's needs for the same.
The ISFP is likely to not give themself enough credit for the things which they do extremely well. Their strong value systems can lead them to be intensely perfectionist, and cause them to judge themselves with unneccesary harshness.
The ISFP has many special gifts for the world, especially in the areas of creating artistic sensation, and selflessly serving others. Life is not likely to be extremely easy for the ISFP, because they take life so seriously, but they have the tools to make their lives and the lives of those close to them richly rewarding experiences.
Jungian functional preference ordering:
Dominant: Introverted Feeling
Auxilliary: Extraverted Sensing
Tertiary: Introverted Intuition
Inferior: Extraverted Thinking
ISFPs are warmhearted, gentle people who take their commitments seriously, and seek lifelong relationships. They are very private people, who keep their true feelings and opinions reserved or hidden from others. This may cause them to constantly defer to their mates in their intimate relationships, which may cause problems if their mates are not extremely aware of the ISFP's feelings. Some ISFPs who are in the habit of not expressing their needs and feelings find themselves in situations throughout their life where they feel overshadowed, overlooked, or even "tread upon" by others. Highly practical and cynical by nature, these feelings may cause the ISFP to become bitter, and to either give up on their relationships, or to start using their relationships for their own personal gain. Although this problem is observed sometimes in the ISFP type, it does not seem to be present in those ISFPs who consistently express their feelings to those closest to them. These ISFPs have a very positive, warm outlook on life and love, and are not as likely to find themselves in relationships where they are taken for granted or taken advantage of. ISFPs go to great lengths to please their partners. They're very loyal and supportive, with a deep capacity for love. They detest conflict and discord, and highly value being seen and understood for who they are. They need space to live their lives in their own unique way, and will respect other's need for space.
ISFP Strengths
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Warm, friendly and affirming by nature
Usually optimistic
Good listeners
Good at dealing with practical day-to-day concerns
Flexible and laid-back, usually willing to defer to their mates
Their love of aesthetic beauty and appreciation for function makes them likely to have attractive, functional homes
Take their commitments seriously, and seek lifelong relationships
Likely to value and respect other's personal space
Likely to enjoy showing their affection through acts and deeds
Sensuous and earthy
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ISFP Weaknesses
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Not good at long-range financial (or other) planning
Extreme dislike of conflict and criticism
Focused on enjoying the present moment, they may appear lazy or slow-moving at times
Need to have their own space, and dislike having it invaded
May be slow to show their affection with words
Tendency to hold back their thoughts and feelings, unless drawn out
May become overly cynical and practical
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ISFPs as Lovers
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"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo May
ISFPs are warm and giving people, who have a depth of emotion and caring which is not often obvious to others, except those who know them extremely well. They are usually intense people, who experience their emotions on an intense level. Although they may appear to be light-hearted, they are in fact extremely serious, and take their relationships seriously. Unlike other SP types, people with the ISFP type desire and seek lifelong, committed relationships.
ISFPs may have a problem with communication. With Introverted Feeling dominating their personality, they are more vulnerable then most to being hurt. Perhaps because of this, they tend to hold back part of themselves from others, and do not always say what they think or feel. This is especially true during conflict situations, which the ISFP abhors more than anything in the world. Confrontations and arguments are very difficult for the ISFP to deal with. They feel personally threatened in these situations. If the ISFP falls into the habit of not communicating their feelings with their partner, this could cause serious problems in the relationship over the long haul.
Sexually, the ISFP approaches intimacy with complete attention, seriousness and depth. They experience lovemaking through their senses, and welcome the chance to interact with their mate at this level. They are not likely to express their feelings verbally, believing that actions speak louder than words.
ISFPs need positive affirmation to be happy and feel good about themselves. They need to be praised, although they are usually uncomfortable with "gushy" praise. The greatest gift their partners can give them is the expression of their affection and admiration.
Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, the ISFP's natural partner is the ESFJ, or the ENFJ. ISFP's dominant function of Introverted Feeling is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Extraverted Feeling. The ISFP/ESFJ combination is ideal, because the types share Sensing as their way of perceiving the world, but ISFP/ENFJ is also a good match
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ISFPs as Friends
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ISFPs are able to get along with most of the other personality types, although they tend to be reserved around those they don't know well. They will enjoy spending time with others who share their interests, and who understand and accept the ISFP for who they are. They greatly value their space and autonomy, and appreciate other's respect for that.
The ISFP is not likely to have much patience or tolerance for those who are strongly Judging. ISFPs celebrate their own uniqueness, as well as everybody else's, and don't appreciate being judged harshly for their differences.
In work settings, the ISFP is likely to get along with most everyone, unless someone inhabits their space too much, in which case sparks may fly. Generally, the ISFP is kind-hearted and generous with those they care about, and makes a true-blue friend.
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